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The Missing Piece ✨

Updated: Dec 5, 2023


Have you ever wondered why you can't seem to

‘catch a break?’

Or why things ‘only happen to you?’

Maybe you've joked around ‘yeah well, with my kind of luck...’ referring to unpleasant things happening to you?


Well, I'm going to be the person to say it,

That's exactly why you are where you are.


Because of limiting beliefs like that. 👆


Let's start with the Truth.

Absolute truth with the capital T.


There is a force among and within all of us that backs ALL of life.

There is this something that people call God, Source, Energy, Life, Law, etc. that is constantly at work.


And NO it’s not the kind of God that is punishing you and makes you pay back for whatever it is you did 13 years ago… (more on this at another time 🤪)


BUT, it is the same power that backs our thoughts, the vibration of these thoughts, the intention and programming behind these thoughts is how this Life Force does what it does to manifest our lives into reality.


"It is done onto you as you believe."

I've talked about this in a previous post (I'll refer you to it at the bottom of the page)

And it's the simple fact that you don't get what you want in life, you get what you believe you deserve in life. And that gets distorted early on in life as we navigate through this cool place called Earth.


Things happen aka traumatic events,

and something happens within us, aka trauma.


The thing that happens within us is what we hold onto moving forward in life and it outpictures in different ways in life oftentimes in the experience of feeling stuck. Feeling like we just can't move forward no matter what we do.


That my friend is because you have beliefs to release.


If I believe "I’m too much" and I believe it is a negative thing, my subconscious mind will do the most trying to stay small because my belief is that being too much is bad.


So my subconscious mind, my beautiful handy dandy subconscious mind, just follows the imprint, the order, the belief, and executes. It just takes my beliefs and subconsciously runs the show in the background and out pictures ways in which I need to make myself small and LESS.


If I believe “I need to make better decisions” my subconscious mind is going to create my life out of that belief and make sure that belief is out-picturing in my life and shows up in ways in which I could have made better decisions.


Are you getting the point?

"It is done onto you as you believe."

And the funny part is that most times we are so closed off and blind to it we don’t recognize our limited beliefs so we go on about life continuing this cycle!


Getting to the root of your suffering and releasing the limited belief tied into the suffering is what I do as a Spiritual Psychology Coach.


It’s the deep subconscious work that gets my clients from living in misery, (because although most don’t show it, most people are living life sad, angry and or depressed and can’t seem to understand why) -to living fully expressed in their truth, knowing Truth.


This is my focus of study.

Subconscious work aka Soul Work.

I work with the mind through divine guidance.


Our subconscious mind doesn't only hold our limitations but it is also a part of the One Divine Mind aka God/Source/Spirit/The All-Knowing.


I have been curating and hosting Spiritual events and ceremonies in my local area and what I’ve learned from these beautiful healing events and gatherings is that THERE IS SO MUCH MORE to dig into and we typically do not get to that in these events.


My first few events started with introducing this work but then expanded onto other forms of healing tools and modalities.


Yes, all the spiritual practices we facilitate are tools to get the mind right including the sacred medicines I practice with but it's through Soul Work (reprogramming the subconscious mind) is where we can "chip away" the pieces that no longer align with who we are or who we choose to be in this life.


I've worked with quite a few wonderful Spiritual Teachers, Facilitators, Medicine Women, and Practitioners throughout this year and have learned so much from all of them, and as we all have expanded and evolved I have recognized that there's a deeper work to do in the collective.


Conversations with The Haseya Collective, our own realizations, and integrations have led us to this place of complete alignment with this new offering for our upcoming event.


The Haseya Collective has designed an event that will take all of what we’ve previously done in our events (breathwork, meditation, movement, and sound healing) and place the missing piece with the subconscious work we do in our 1:1 sessions as Practitioners and Coaches into our event space.


I am so f*cking excited to hold our first in-person E4 Trauma Healing Method this Month.

This is the deep work we get to guide you to release beliefs that have limited your expression in this lifetime.


This is the deep work that we as a collective need, to create something new for the future-

To be able to hold one another without judgement-

And allow ourselves to be held without shame.


This is the real work, my friend, and I invite you to it.


This is the work I am deeply passionate about.

The work that I spend my days reading on, discussing, practicing, and implementing in my life as well as helping my clients implement in theirs.


The work that has got me from where I was mentally and spiritually, to where I am today.


I invite you to Join The Haseya Collective and I along with Krystie Pilen with Awaken Within, in this remarkable one-of-a-kind event.


The link is at the bottom of this page and you can find it on my Instagram bio, my website, Haseya’s bio & website, It’s everywhere and so easy to find it.


The time is now, it’s up to you to make the decision to make it happen.


Thank you for reading what is my longest post by far lol

Thank you for doing the work you are doing for yourself because it ripples out much wider than you can imagine.


You are healing the collective.


You are healing your generation.


You are the one your family has been waiting for.


I love you <3





 


Take the deep dive with us, tickets to December's Event:


 


Blog References:


"It is done onto you as you believe" read previous post here


The Law of Attraction- Your consciousness directs energy upon Universal Law, which sets

polarity into motion by the magnetic frequency of the beliefs within your soul; the

actualization of who you are, and the actions you take.( Dr. Erin Fall Haskell, D.D Spiritual Awakening Universal Law Oracle Cards)







 
 
 

The Four Agreements

A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom by Don Miguel Ruiz, 1 segment broken down into 4 weeks.

"it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to "sick"

In the teachings of the Science of Mind, it is believed that all health is perfect health.

All of the ailments and dis-eases are manifested from the mind first. I wanted to touch on this briefly before I moved on because I personally don't believe in being sick. I believe in living the physical reality of what's happening in the inner world and if there are physical ailments it may be healed by going within and exploring the mind and ill thoughts. (I may get into this later but not at this time)


The truth is we are always doing our best. We can only do so much with the knowledge and wisdom we currently have. And so our best will look different from moment to moment.

If we are "healthy", living in harmony with what's around us we will feel great and do great works. If we feel "sick" depressed, sad, or anxious, we will only do what we are capable of doing under those circumstances. But if we can accept our best in this moment then we can avoid self-judgement, shame, guilt, and self-hatred. Also understanding that we are all doing our best we can have more grace and compassion on others and what their best looks like in the moment. This will also help with judgment and hatred among others.


Always do your best no matter what is happening around you. Your internal state affects your outer world so do your best to nourish yourself from within and practice self-forgiveness for the times you wish you knew better. We don't know what we don't know.


Write it Out! Make amends:

I want you to think and WRITE about the times that someone has disappointed you or let you down. Maybe it was your parents, your siblings, your spouse, etc.


Think about this agreement and recognize they were only doing what they knew in that moment and what their best looked like at that moment.


Forgive them for not knowing better and forgive yourself for judging them for it.

Forgiveness work is what heals the heart. Forgiveness is not for them but for you! Even if you don't speak to them anymore know that letting go of the pain of disappointment will set you free.


This completes The Four Agreements Blog Segment - Toltec wisdom taught by Don Miguel Ruiz.

I have attached a link to this life-changing book for you to dive deeper into these teachings and come to your own views and understanding of them.


I have grown into my own practices and teachings but I have kept so much of Don Miguel's teachings in my heart and current practices. My faith is that this segment of the blog has helped you see life and yourself a bit differently in a positive way and I pray you implement these teachings into your life to live a life of personal freedom and harmony.


I have more for you next Tuesday but for now, if you haven't read the previous posts please do so!

As always, I freaking love you! Thank you for showing up in this world as the healer you are even if you're in the works of healing yourself, that is the greatest gift to this world! "When we heal ourselves we heal others"


Catch me on Instagram or visit my website for opportunities to work together on your journey.

From Science to ancient modalities my goal is to guide you back to your innate wisdom and divine nature so you can live your fullest expression aligned to your soul's mission here. We each have a unique purpose and skillset to help make this world a better place for our future generations. YOU are the one your family has been waiting for! <3


Read the rest of the Four Agreements on my previous blog posts...



Upcoming event:

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1:1 containers are now open– book a free discovery call if you are ready to step into the person you came here to be.


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Disclaimer: the perception and projection of Don Miguel’s work are my personal perceptions and beliefs and have nothing to do with Don Miguel’s original work.



 
 
 

The Four Agreements #3

A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom by Don Miguel Ruiz, 1 segment broken down into 4 weeks.


"ask questions and express what you really want"

Seek Truth.

Always.


This is one of the most challenging for me out of all agreements.

It's so easy to assume. We assume what others are thinking or what others are doing and by making that assumption we typically assume it has something to do with us and therefore we take things personally.


"I always seek truth first."

I say that and truly try to practice it but when emotions are high it's easier to just assume the worst and believe that to be the truth.


Don Miguel states how just by making assumptions you can create and believe a fantasy.

If we can practice seeking truth first we can practice getting clarification to avoid misunderstandings. And again even after seeking truth still practice not taking anything personally.


My oldest boy loves to call me up when i make an assumption. Because he knows this is a practice for us all as soon as I make an assumption he calls me out on it.


It's beautiful to have your children be your mirrors (such a life lesson to be a parent) but the truth is if we can all just lean in with curiosity about a certain topic we can gain clarification and not create a whole ass story in your head about something.


I want to share a personal story about this.

I practiced my sobriety out loud on social media a couple of years back so many knew about my restriction to alcohol at that time.


I received a message from someone one day who asked why didn't I say hi to her at the bar last night, and I was so confused because I was not at a bar. This person was adamant that it was me. because this woman looked JUST LIKE ME. I encouraged her to ask for the woman's name of whom she thought was me and in the end, she realized it was indeed not me and learned the woman's name.


After she let me know of the mistake I expressed my gratitude for her wanting to "call me out" and actually reaching out to me because she could have just sat in the story that i was lying on media about my sobriety. She had a whole ass story in her head about this entire situation and it truly wasn't me.


So all this to say please, seek truth first. Instead of making assumptions, ask questions especially if you have a whole ass story attached to it.


The entire situation made me see this agreement even more clearly which is why i wanted to share it. Some things aren't a big deal but it's still an assumption and some assumptions can create a mess that is completely unreal and just the illusions of the mind.


State your truth clearly, with love. Ask questions and avoid misunderstandings. We can do the best we can for ourselves and those around us but also understand that a misunderstanding is okay just do not take it personally. Everyone sees life through their own lens <3


with so much love,



 

Upcoming event:

Click link for tickets.


1:1 containers are now open– book a free discovery call if you are ready to step into the person you came here to be.


Read the previous blog post Don't Take Anything Personally to learn the second agreement from Don Miguel's 4 agreements.


Purchase my collaborative E-Book on Kindle!

to start your journey into being the person you came here to be!


Blog Resources:



 
 
 
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